Andy leading a prayer for Silas and our growing family!
My prayer warriors!
It is with great excitement that we can share that we have a SON! A 3rd son, WOW! We
started our adoption journey in July of 2013. After 21 months, we
finally received the call that announced we had been matched. Randi, our Ethiopia Program Director, called
me (Ashlie) at 7:30pm on April 14, 2015! I will never forget this day
because it is the same day that Easton fell off the playground at school and broke
his arm. I was standing in the pharmacy at Walmart (of ALL
places) waiting for Easton's pain medicine when my phone rang. Tears of
JOY immediately flowed! I was exhausted and drained when I got the phone call that I have been waiting for. Ryan
loaded up the boys (even though Easton was in a splint and scheduled to
be sedated early the next morning) to meet me at my parents. We surprised my parents with our arrival and told them that we had an email to open!
We quickly told the boys that it was time to see their brother! (Since
we opened up our request to boy or girl on March 30, 2015, we have been
preparing the boys for a brother!) Easton barley had his eyes open but he
was very excited to see his brother! We opened the email and instantly
knew we were looking at our son!
Sweetest friends!
Waiting for 21 months has not been easy. God has used this time to grow our faith and our marriage. I believe the Lord wanted me to feel a sense of surrender through this wait. We had been waiting for a daughter for a year and a half. Through much prayer we believe God had asked us to open our request to either gender. We were at complete peace at the thought of three sons! This adoption hasn't just been about growing our family. It has been about stepping out on faith, saying "YES" to the Lord, and watching God do amazing things in our lives. The night that we received our referral call I literally had nothing left to give. I could only then rely on my faith and to carry me through. God never disappoints, He showed up that night! We are truly grateful for the trials that we have overcome. We give God the glory for everything He is doing in our lives and our new son's life!
We are so thankful for all of the friends and family who joined us!
We have very little information to share about our Silas. Through the next few months we will uncover his story. He is estimated to be 20 months old, his birthday is unknown. He is from the Oromia region, which is in the south. (Easton is also from the South but not the same region) Thankfully, we have over 10 pictures of our little guy and another adoption family met him last week. He has been described as sweet, shy, observant and adorable! We have studied and memorized each picture. We are thankful that in last week's image he looks healthy, happy, and alert! We believe he is making huge gains being at our adoption agency's foster care home and ofcourse the power of a praying Daddy and Mommy has no limitations!
Blue silly string for another BOY!
So, when do we get to meet Silas and bring him home? Ryan and I are going ASAP! We just can't stand seeing him grow up in pictures. We want to meet him, hug him, kiss him and love on him! We are making plans for a visitation trip THIS July! Our adoption agency is predicting that we will not have a court date until December. That's 8 months away. =( We've decided that meeting Silas around is 2nd birthday is a priceless opportunity. We have longed to be back in Ethiopia for five years. We just cannot wait to be back in Addis Ababa with our SON!
Predicted Timeline: April14th, 2015- Our Referral! July, 2015- Ryan and Ashlie's Visitation Trip to Meet Silas in Ethiopia Hopefully, December, 2015- Court Date-Ryan and Ashlie Flying back to Ethiopia! (Ashlie will stay with Silas for an estimated 4-6 Weeks in Ethiopia, waiting on the US Embassy to assign Silas a Visa) Hopefully, January, 2016- Bring Silas HOME!
Wonderful friends!
Will you please join us in praying for our son? We need his heart to be prepared to join our family. We pray for attachment and bonding. Adopting children from hard places is not easy. Ryan and I are preparing ourselves, Easton, and Preston to meet all of Silas' needs. Will you also pray that our paperwork continues to move swiftly through the US Immigration office, Ethiopia Courts, and the US Embassy in Addis Ababa?
We love adoption but we will be the first to tell you that it is not easy! We are making many difficult decisions in the best interest of our new son. We keep telling the boys and ourselves, he needs a family and we are his family! We are so blessed by adoption and we cannot stop singing praises for everything The Lord has done in our lives!
Lastly, Ashlie Fulmer Photography is open for business! 100% of my photography funds will be used toward our flight expenses. At this time all of our adoption fees are paid. We are responsible for all of our travel expenses, which will be over $10k. If you need family pictures, maternity pictures, or events, please consider me! Email me at Ryanashlie@gmail.com to schedule your session!
Thank you for being apart of this journey to our child! We love and appreciate you! I leave you with this edited picture of our baby boy!
Our Son! (We cannot share full images until we pass Ethiopian Court)
Sometimes, no news is good news. For the last 9 months, that has been the case. We officially submitted our dossier in November of 2013 for our Ethiopian adoption. At that time, we believed our referral would come within 12 months. (A "referral" means the official match between an orphan and a family) Although we have only waited 9 months, I'm hopeful that we are getting closer to seeing our daughter for the first time. Unofficially, we are family #6 waiting for our referral. I believe that we could receive our referral call as early as October, however, it could be late into the Spring. Either way, we continue to patiently wait for God's timing. Thankfully, Easton and Preston have kept us busy throughout this waiting process. I am so thankful for the friends and family who continue to pray for our family and daughter.
Our summer was filled with trips to the beach, hours in the pool, picnicking at our local parks, and a 21 day road trip to Ohio and Pennsylvania. We had a traditional summer vacation, staying in 8 different houses, with family and friends. The pictures below retell our summer adventure!
Thank you for taking the time to check in on our Fulmer Family! We appreciate your support and look forward to the day that we can announce exciting adoption news!
Photography for a cause! 100% of proceeds will go toward our adoption expenses.
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Easton's Adoption Timeline
July 23rd, 2009-Acceptance from AWAA, Officially began the adoption process! August 5th, 2009-Return from summer vacation and start working on the homestudy and dossier documents August 31st, 2009- Homestudy paperwork done, 3/4 the way complete with the Dossier September 12th-26th, 2009- First Home Study Visit 9/12, 2nd visit 9/23, 3rd visit 9/26. September 16th, 2009-Received Notary Authentication from FL Dept. of State. September 19th, 2009- Dossier complete 90%-waiting on the Finalized Home Study Report and I-171H (Immigration Papers)
October 19th- Home Study Completed, finalized copies received!!!!! October 20th- I-600A Sent to USCIS October 28th- Confirmation that USCIS received our application. Waiting for an appointment to be finger printed at the CIS department in Tampa. October 29th- Made 4 copies of the Dossier....waiting for Immigration Paperwork, the LAST piece!! November 14th-Appointment Notification for Biometrics (fingerprints) December 1st- USCIS Building in Tampa to be fingerprinted. December 23rd- Immigration Approval Received (I-7171H) Sent Dossier to our Agency in Washington, DC!!! January 8, 2010-DTE!!! (Dossier to Ethiopia!!!!!) Officially on the waiting list for Easton!!!! February 8, 2010- 1 Month Waiting for our referral! =) March 8, 2010- 2 Months Waiting for our referral! =) March 10, 2010- The Ethiopia Government changed the adoption procedure to a 2-trip program. Meaning, families must travel 2-4 weeks after receiving a referral to appear in Ethiopian Court. Families will return to the US (without child) after their court date. Finally families will travel back to Ethiopia 10-12 weeks later, to bring their child home. April 8, 2010- 3 Months Waiting for Easton's Picture!!!
May 1, 2010- Find out we are at the top of the list for a baby boy referral!!! Praying our day is coming soon!!!!!
May 8, 2010- 4 Months Waiting for Our Referral!!!!
May 13, 2010- REFERRAL!!! We see our 2 month old baby for the 1st time EVER!! He's beautiful, we are in love, and we are parents!!!!
June 4, 2010- Announce that we are pregnant!!!!!! We are going to be a family of 4 by Christmas!
June 18, 2010- Ashlie and her Mom Leave for Ethiopia! Ashlie will be teaching at the Transition Home and loving on Easton everyday until she can bring him home forever!
June 20, 2010 - Ashlie meets Easton for the first time!!!
July 14, 2010 - Ryan meets Easton for the first time.
July 21, 2010 - We pass court, and are officially a family!
August 19th, 2010- US Embassy Appointment August 20th, 2010- Flew out of Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
I am the wife to my amazing husband Ryan and mother to our two sons, Easton Aschenaki and Preston Abenet. We adopted our son from Ethiopia in 2010 and after 9 months in the adoption process were surprised to find out that I was pregnant! Our 2 boys are only 8 months apart. We are excited to embark on our next adoption journey. We will be adopting our daughter from Ethiopia! Follow our story at: www.fulmerstory.blogspot.com